A Change in Attitude

Change your attitude

“And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.”

Ephesians‬ ‭1:13-14‬ ‭(NIV)‬‬

Attitude can be such a blind spot for us. We can’t look in the mirror and see that our attitude is untidy or does not match our life as a Christ-follower. This force that drives our conduct may go unseen by us, but it is like the stuffy butler in an old movie who announces guests as they arrive at a party. Our attitude colors everything. It enters a room or a relationship ahead of us and announces the tone for an encounter.

The Challenge

As Christ-followers, we are called to be transformed. Our mission is to replace our own self-centered attitudes with God’s attitude, which is guided by love for others rather than selfishness. Changing our attitude is difficult. In fact, the scriptures say we must die to self–not simply push selfishness aside or stuff it down, but take something integral to who we are and set it aside. Then, the void we carve out can be filled with righteousness and holiness.

The Helper

As humans, we can’t do it at all. And we don’t have to! God has placed his Spirit in us to do the heavy lifting. Change does not happen overnight. Yes, we are transformed as we accept Christ, but this verse helps us understand that we are being made new. We are slowly being revised. Or to put it another way, we are maturing. We learn to put off our own desires and practice putting on God’s desires for us. It’s a lifelong learning process.

The Key

The trouble with a lifelong process is our human impatience. I would like to flip the switch and be changed overnight. But there is a lot of change needed in my life. I couldn’t handle it all at once. The key is that I must daily invite the Spirit to reveal what is in my heart and to purge my old attitudes.

And even as I write this, illness has changed our traditional family gathering. We normally have an exuberant crowd of family around our table. But God has called us this year to a quieter season. I am determined thankfulness will mark it all the same. I know that as seasons come and go, our good Father remains unchanged. Ever loving, ever watchful, and always calling us to a deeper relationship.

8 responses to “A Change in Attitude”

  1. Thank you for your timely words.

    1. Thank you for taking the time to stop in and comment Melanie.

  2. Amen Ms. Loretta. Oh, how often I get upset at myself when I discover that something I thought i put away years ago has found its way back to the surface of my life. Thank you for reminding me to never give up on asking God to change me, but to give myself some slack and let the process, and God, work in their time rather than mine. God’s blessings; and Happy Thanksgiving gentle friend.

    1. Happy Thanksgiving J.D. much to be thankful for this year!
      So grateful I can serve you thru my blog.

  3. I’m guilty of this, but what a great reminder to keep our “butler” in check!

    1. I’m guilty too Kelly. How else would I know this?

  4. Katherine Pasour Avatar
    Katherine Pasour

    Just the right time of year to remind us to examine our attitude and pray that God will guide us as to the changes we need to make. I’m praying for “an attitude of gratitude”–borrowing from our friend J.D.’s blog this week). Thank you for this reminder as we enter the time of Advent and the Season of Love (Christmas). What better time to begin to change?

    1. Indeed Katherine. The perfect time.

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